Becky Thatcher's Relationship with Tom

The romantic arc between Tom and Becky, from first meeting to engagement, jealousy, and reconciliation.

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First Sight

The New Girl The Instant Attraction Tom sees Becky Thatcher, a new girl in town, and immediately forgets his previous crush, Amy Lawrence. He shows off for her, and she tosses him a pansy. The School Encounter Tom sits next to Becky in school, draws pictures, and eventually writes "I LOVE YOU" on his slate. They become engaged after a kiss, but Tom's mention of Amy Lawrence causes a rift. The Breakup Becky cries and rejects Tom's peace offering. Tom leaves school, and they are estranged for a time.

Jealousy and Reconciliation

The Picnic and the Cave The Jealousy Game Tom, now a hero, ignores Becky to spite her. She retaliates by flirting with Alfred Temple. Tom's jealousy flares, and they reconcile after Tom takes the blame for her torn anatomy book. The Cave Ordeal During the picnic, Tom and Becky become lost in McDougal's Cave. Their shared ordeal strengthens their bond. Tom's courage and care for Becky deepen their relationship. The Happy Ending After their rescue, Becky tells her father about Tom's noble lie, and Judge Thatcher praises Tom. Their relationship is secure, and Tom's heroism wins Becky's lasting affection.

Early in the story, after the whitewashing

After the pirate adventure, mid-story